Let Go Of Control And Go With The Flow Of Life!

Life goes on. Sometimes, however, we try to cling to it and control it. But that way we might choose a flow that gets us nowhere.

Unexpected and unforeseen events overtake us. We then get upset and go against it. What we also usually do at those times is to put the blame on something or someone else. This is noticeable in the sentences we use. “What have I done to deserve this?” We victimize ourselves because we had already built up certain expectations for ourselves beforehand.

We all know that having expectations is incredibly negative. Because most of the time they don’t come true. The result is that we fall into despondency. We feel disappointed and broken. This will cause us to sink very deep.

It is useless to want to control life. But apparently this is one way we deal with life. In fact, it’s almost a habit to do this.

When all goes well, this might be a great approach. But as soon as everything starts to go wrong, we become victims. Instead of straightening our backs, on the other hand, we start behaving like victims. So we don’t encourage ourselves to overcome the adversity.

Life is not easy. A big misconception is that everything has to go right to be happy. But isn’t this a somewhat greedy attitude?

Everything in life consists of good and bad moments. These two sides have a purpose, even if some events make us feel better than others. But it’s important to note that this is a matter of perspective.

• Failure does not mean that we have to abandon our goals. We can still accomplish what we really enjoy.
• It’s actually anything but a loss. Because it gives you the opportunity to grow, mature and learn. So you also learn which things are good for you.
• A toxic relationship is not a reason to reject love and cut it out of your life completely.

See it as an opportunity to learn how to be more picky and selective. It also offers you the opportunity to take off the blindfold that you have created from your expectations as quickly as possible.

When will you stop banging your head against the wall? Life keeps saying “not here.” Stop making yourself a victim of a situation. Because perhaps life tells you at those moments that it is better to go in a different direction.

Stop blaming other people for everything you suffer from. Because you may be the one making this happen. Maybe you are the person who is unable to fend off people and distance themselves from people who are not good for you.

You live your life on autopilot. That’s the reason you fail to see all that life has to say. Because with every step you take, life teaches you a lesson.

Life gives you specific guidelines, even if you don’t accept them in the best way. Yet life continues to give you these advices. Open your eyes! Classes are right in front of you…

We force ourselves into relationships that are not worth the pain. Instead of moving on, we get stuck in lamentations. We are stuck in our victim role. This causes us to see ourselves as a victim when in reality we are not.

Why not let us go with the flow of life?

We stop rejecting all the negative things around us. But we’re going to see them as the perfect opportunity to move in a different direction.

Sometimes we are so stuck in our comfort zone that we lose perspective. We hate change! But changes are necessary.

When difficulties overwhelm your existence, your whole world becomes rudderless. Because you like things to be organized. You want your days to follow a clear routine. Everything is planned in advance and nothing should deviate from this.

But when something inevitable happens, you throw your arms in the air. Because you feel like you’re walking on a tightrope. And you don’t like uncertainty. You see changes that you have not chosen yourself as setbacks.

However, everything starts with changing your view of situations. Because even the most negative things have a positive side. All it takes is that you know how to see that side because it can be very subtle.

You won’t succeed if you choose the easy way. By that we mean by complaining and by denying and rejecting everything that catches you off guard.

Learn how to manage your worries and stress. Go with the flow of life. Let yourself be carried away by life. Don’t be afraid of what will happen. Because you will see that fantastic things will happen to you when you least expect it. You will experience things you could never dream of.